E-mail #2: Update from Jay

Date: Sat, 12 Aug 2000 22:09:46 -0700 (PDT)

From: Jay Schneider

Subject: Update from Jay 

so I played with a hand grenade today. Shot an AK-47, too, but the grenade was more significant for me. But I’ll get to all that in a bit… 

Another mass-mail to update you as to the whereabouts and goings-on of Jay.  For those of you who have no interest, or don’t know who I am, oops and apologies. For those of you who can’t read English, well, this is good studying for you, neh

On July 30, under a scorching late-morning sun, pack on my back, flip-flops on my feet, sweat in uncomfortable places, and dust everywhere, I crossed the Thai-Cambodian Border into Poipet. The border official in charge of stamping our passports seemed in no hurry to do so, and was quite content to chat away with friends and leave to make a phone call. His unhurried pace surprised me because in each passport was a 200 Baht bill, which he gracefully slipped into the desk drawer, and simple economics tells me that the faster you stamp the passports, the faster the money comes in. Aah, Cambodia is young in the ways of corruption…  Personally, I didn’t put any money in my passport and got through just the same.  For those of you screaming,  “Jay, you missed your chance to participate in the time-honored tradition of 3rd world bribery!”, fret not. Those who have no international health card to show have to pay 40 Baht. (Hey, it’s cheaper than actually getting the shots…)

Hot, dusty, uncomfortable, shady corruption–I loved every bit of it!

Waited with others for a pick-up truck to fill up, and we were off to Siem Reap. Atop a dozen packs, 8 of us sat/sprawled/held on for dear life as we began our journey on what at one time may have been a road. (There were 5 who paid more to sit inside the cab, but there’s no need to mention them).  The first 90 minutes were spent laughing (cause what else can ya do?) at the “pot-holes as large as our truck which each vehicle had to negotiate. With each “crater,” the mysterious hard, objects which somehow managed to find their way to the top of each pack, gouged into our legs, sides, and seats harder and harder. One man was nearly tossed from the truck on several occasions.  The novelty and absurdity and just plain outlandishness of our situation resulted in laughter and, at least on the surface, good spirits, among all.  Though patience was wearing thin at the thought of another 5-6 hours of it, so the meal stop was well-timed (oh yeah, there was something wrong with the axel). After a long wait (while the truck was checked) the mood was borderline bitter, but before boarding, we rearranged the packs and the remainder of the journey promised to be more enjoyable. As it happened, the “road” was better (that’s a relative term, mind you), we were more comfortable, and perhaps the Mekong Whiskey which some indulged in, helped make the trip pure fun. (Those suckers inside missed out.) We hardly minded the extra man who jumped aboard to share our already cramped space (really cool guy. Cambodian Archaeologist working to restore some temples.  He explained to us how this stretch of the road had recently been improved –I’d hate to have seen in before– where land mines had recently been found (that explains the large holes in the bridges), and how the road “security” people rarely robbed tourists anymore.)

The images of rural Cambodia are with me still, and as it grew dark (how would we avoid the holes in the bridges?), the moonless sky showed more stars than I have ever seen in my life.

A brilliant journey.

Nothing brings people closer together than shared misery, so I’ll tell you about the players, with whom I’d spend the next few days. Neil and Gillian — a Scottish Couple, traveling for a few months (Note: the ride to the border left at 6:30 in the morning. So there was constant reference to this time throughout the journey. Though my ear can usually adjust quickly to differing accents, it’s amazing how a thick Scottish accent can make “half-six” (6:30) sounds like “have sex”) Steve and Emma — English couple traveling for a year.  Sharon — Canadian student. Inna — Israeli girl, just started her travels. Taka — a 19-year-old Japanese kid who seemed very relieved when I spoke Japanese with him.

7 of us shared two rooms (Taka didn’t stay with us), which I thought was a great idea because I ended up with a bed to myself.

We spent 3 days seeing the temples of Angkor Wat, and I’m not going to go into too much detail, following my philosophy of “If you wanna know, you gotta go.” The temples and ruins were truly amazing, and while I haven’t seen the pyramids, the ruins in Greece, or any such wonders, Angkor Wat and the other temples just blew me away. I was touched on many levels. The sheer size and grandeur of something built so long ago. The carvings and art-work, and the detail of it all. And the Indy Jones in me who loved being able to explore overgrown ruins, in relative freedom and isolation.

One afternoon, we (the seven and our moto-drivers) rode up to a river in which there were numerous carvings. Then we hiked to a waterfall and swam about. We had water-fights with the drivers, and to watch them swim, play and swing from vines, they seemed to have even more fun than we did.  (Perhaps we should have charged them?)

Last word about Angkor Wat: I sat under the starry sky, and waited for the sun to rise from behind Angkor Wat. This is easily one of the most incredible moments I’ve experienced.

 to be continued…

Read a Book: Cambodia

Cambodia–“Land of Smiles”–is a beautiful country with a very friendly and welcoming population. In my first visit to the country, the smiles and laughter (of the children, especially) were infectious and a many points in my journey, it was hard to think that I was not in paradise.

Yet this is a country and people that have been terrorized through war and oppression by both foreign and domestic powers. If you are not familiar with the atrocities and horrors this country has had to endure, I strongly urge you to educate yourself. If you’re short on time you can skim a wikipedia article and if you don’t like to read, you could at least watch “The Killing Fields” movie.

There are many books on the subject, but a few of the ones I read include (I have not included links, though you can track them down wherever you get your books):

  • When the War was Over: Cambodia and the Khmer Rouge Revolution, by Elizabeth Becker (PublicAffairs, 1998) – Journalist Elizabeth Becker covered Cambodia for The Washington Post and writes about Cambodia’s struggles from French Colonialism through the death of Pol Pot.
  • When Broken Glass Floats, Chanrithy Him (W.W. Norton Company, 2000) – Just a child when the Khmer Rouge came to power, she recounts her experiences surviving (barely) the years under Pol Pot.
  • Off the Rails in Phnom Penh: Into the Dark Heart of Guns, Girls and Ganja, Amit Gilboa (Asia Books, 1998) – a look at the post-war debauchery and corruption in Cambodia’s capital city as floods of foreigners with money swoop in to exploit a vulnerable country.

I read another book with “Year Zero” in the title, but all these years later as I searched the internet for it, I couldn’t find it. There are a lot of books out there–with varying degrees of quality–but please find a book or seek out a documentary to learn more about Cambodia’s history.

E-mail #1: What’s up with Jay?

Date: Sat, 29 Jul 2000 06:57:34 -0700 (PDT)

From: Jay Schneider

Subject: What’s up with Jay?

Okay, this is my first mass-mailing thing, so I need to put in all the usual disclaimers and apologies…

For some of you, you know all this already because I just e-mailed you two seconds ago. Others, haven’t heard from me in a while and have no idea what I’m doing (and wondered how I tracked you down.) And still others may not even know who I am. If that’s the case, you wanna be my friend?

Okay, here we go…

After 3 incredible years in Japan, I said farewell (sayoonara?) to my school, my friends, and the wonderful life I had been living, packed my bags and headed out into the world, intent on travelling until I spent all the money I’ve saved, and returning to the States, homeless, jobless, flat broke, but with a lot of stories and pictures to bore everyone with for years to come.

My first stop was just a four day stopover in Seoul. Food was great, shopping very tempting, but fortunately, my pack was full enough. I definitely want to return, but hopefully I’ll be able to stay longer and see what the country has to offer besides its capitol.

Next stop, Bangkok, for a few days of resting my mind and body. Bangkok may not seem like the ideal place to do this, but I was finally able to sleep off the hectic final weeks of good-bye parties and packing in Japan.

Just having no schedule, and no pressure to see the sights (been here before), brought me a great sense of calm. Plus, I needed to get my Cambodia visa, buy travel insurance, and take care of some other preparations, which can easily, and inexpensively be done in Bangkok.

Tomorrow morning, I’ll catch a bus for the border, where I’ll cross overland into Cambodia. I’m stopping off to spend a few days exploring Angkor Wat, and then heading down to Phnom Penh.

For the next three weeks, I’ll be volunteering at an orphanage. A bit of teaching, playing with the kids, helping “run” things, and there’s talk of building a basketball court.

After the workcamp, I’ll probably see a bit more of Cambodia, then head back to Thailand on my way to Nepal, where I’ll again be volunteering.

But I’ll keep you posted, and let you know all the details after they unfold.

Feel free to send e-mails anytime, though while I’m volunteering, I may not have the easy (cheap) access to computers for daily, quick responses.

That’s all for now…

Jay “where in the world is…” Schneider

My Journal

Before leaving Japan, I picked up a diary so I could write about my travels. At first, I was definitely uncomfortable with the whole journal-writing practice. I wasn’t sure if I had to write an entry every day, track all the details, or just summarize. Did I need to write in complete sentences? If you think I was overthinking this–you’re right–and I even wrote in my journal about my struggle to figure out “how” to journal several times. I am definitely glad I forced myself to write at least something, as even today as I read what amounts to a laundry list of chicken scratches, it triggers a number of long-forgotten memories.

Below are a few pics of my journal (forgive the handwriting, it was meant for my eyes only.)

Bangkok Bites

'Twas a good night
slept tight
but Gosh Darnit 
those bed bugs did bite!

Though not my first time in Bangkok, it was my first time on Khao San Road, the infamous Bangkok backpacker magnet. In 1997, I first dipped my toe in the waters of Southeast Asian travel and had no idea what I was doing. At that time, my first night in Bangkok (Yes, I had “One Night in Bangkok”) I slept in a cozy bed in a proper hotel and just marveled at how easy, comfortable and inexpensive my adventure was. Throughout that first trip, as well as the following few years, I learned how to travel more budget-minded and experience-focused, discovered how to independently navigate new waters, and basically, how to be a backpacker.

So I returned to Bangkok, wiser, and more experienced, and was looking forward to my journey as a seasoned, veteran traveler. I got a room at one of the hundreds (thousands?) of options available, with little more research than “well, this one is in front of me, so why not take a look?” The room was the typical offering–shoebox of a room with plywood walls that didn’t go up to the ceiling, no bathroom and a padlock to secure the door–and it was enough for me.

That first night, as I lie in bed, with half a sarong partially covering me, I noticed tiny bugs crawling around the room, on the bed, and–most noticeably–on my shirtless body. (note: though these bugs were in my bed, they were not “bed bugs.” I never bothered to identify them, actually.) I casually brushed them away, and didn’t pay them much mind except when they started to bite me.

And through all this, I wasn’t upset or bothered. I lay in bed, looking up at the ceiling fan above me (the rooms could never get dark since the hallway lights were on 24 x 7, and even if it was dark, the pop music blasting from the streets was enough to overwhelm the senses), I took stock of how I was a hard-core, battle-tested backpacker, and this is what Khao San Road was all about. The Jay of three years earlier may have been uncomfortable by the conditions, but this was all just part of the experience. If you can’t take it, then get out of the game and go back to your cushioned life of pampered, air-conditioned, clean sheets travel. Let those bugs crawl all over. That’s part of the deal.

For the record, that is NOT part of the deal. In all my subsequent stays on Khao San Road (and other Bangkok neighborhoods), I never again had issues of bugs crawling all over me, and I even found cheaper places to stay. I don’t mean to say I didn’t have occasional visitors and unwelcome roommates from time to time in my travels, but, yeah, I did come to realize that bug-filled rooms were not, in fact, a standard amenity of budget accommodations, and certainly not a requirement for maintaining hard-core, independent adventurer credentials.

So as it turns out, as much as I had learned about travel over the previous few years, I still had a lot more to learn. Then again, maybe that’s the real lesson–there’s always more to learn.